A lot of People have been wondering, whether these 2 Words are Interlink or must they be always put together.
To me, I think they don’t really have any Direct Connection but somehow, In-directly supporting each other.
When a Person is Strong, doesn’t mean that, he/she will be Happy. Sometime, being Strong or Acting Strong can be Hurting or Tiring, especially when you need to face a lot of People that have intermediate relationship.
Trying to be Strong is not really a Bad Thing, but in sometime, being Coward is a form of Blessing. When? When a Person is down or low, which needed the Comfort & Care from ALL the People that really Appreciate & Love you.
In the Past, Jave Wu had to show Strong in front of a lot of People, reasons:
1 Due to being a Leader
2 The Sole-breadwinner of the Family
3 A lot of People seeking advises from
But now, Jave Wu realise that, being Strong is Secondary, able to be Happy and Live to the Fullest is the most Primary & Nature issues for now (In certain time, being Weak is a form of Blessing too).
Showing Happy Faces not only Bring Joy to the People around Oneself, it will also Dissolve a lot of Un-solvable Issues, such as Arguments, Conflicts or Fighting.
Happy can bring in True Love, True Friendship and last, True Sincerity & Honesty. And so, why must a Person be Unhappy and Calculative at ALL time? Don’t you felt Tired being Unhappy & Calculative as compare to be Being Strong?
In Taoism, we need to stay Optimistic in-order to see Changes Occuring. Besides that, Optimistic can sometime make Changes too.
Being Strong is not Enough, being Happy is the Most Important thing that Everyone shall practise & learn.
眞正的強和裝強是兩碼事。
ReplyDelete不忘本、不虧欠、樂觀的面對人生與每件事物，這才是眞正的快樂。
願準提保佑大家。
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ReplyDeleteSifu yes being strong is one thing but being sad is also good too cause when we realise how fragile we are thats when we think of drawing near to the deities to seek their help and answers. If we are always happy and go lucky then we human beings tend to forget about seeking blessings from Heaven sometimes let alone provoke Heaven saying all the blessing one have is due to ones own hands but somehow forgot Heaven is there to help as well. One might presume life and death is predestined but might have forgotten that to be a Hero much sacrifice is needed. One might win a thousand praises from ones friends or colleagues but if one if an enemy bows to you then one have surely gain their respect.
ReplyDeletedear Bro
ReplyDeletepermit me, if necessary, to come and visit you in s'pore
Hi Jave
ReplyDeleteIt must be tiring wearing different hats... leader, sole bread winner and advisor. However, if there is so called life mission or destiny, I think you had fufilled it with flying colors. I think a lot of people have benefited from your informative taoist writing. I would said that I am one of those although I am not a Taoist.
As you and your family is going thru this tough time, may the writing Lao Tze grants strength and wisdom to you :
The Tao is silent, yet its silence guides the humble.
The Tao is empty,yet its emptiness gives strength to the meek.
The Tao is vague,yet its vagueness gives clarity to the compassionate.
The Tao is unreachable,yet it is part of your true self.
http://www.taoism.net/theway/wayistao.htm
Hence, may each smile and each word bring forth happiness and strength to people around you.
Life is so fragile and impermanent, may we learn to treasure our lives and each living moments.
NAMU MYO HO RENGE KYO
Dear Si Fu,
ReplyDeleteIf you don't mind, permit me to introduce an alternative treatment to cure your sickness.
In Indonesia, there is a cancer healer. Her name is sister Antonia Batseran.
many people have been been cured by her, especially in cancer cases.
And many cases have been solved.
From what I know she uses the traditional & herbal ingredient to cure people.
If you need me, I can get her contacts, schedule & other informations for you.
May Heaven always bless you with long life and good health, Si Fu.
My sincere regards,
Kwang Hui
Million thank to you Bro, I'm really touch by the words that you have posted. Really thank you.
ReplyDeleteDear Kwang Hui,
ReplyDeleteMillion Thanks, will contact you when in need.
Dear Si Fu,
ReplyDeleteWhenener you need, just contact me.
my email address is kwanghui@lyman.co.id
I will be always ready.
Best regards,
Kwang Hui
Million thanks.
ReplyDeletehey master Jave,
ReplyDeleteI had benefit alot from yr website n i would like to say thanks and jia you to u^^
fu shen wu liang tian zun
Thanks for your support. I will be more strong and happy.
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